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	<title>Off The Record With Debbie &#38; Tony &#187; Life</title>
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		<title>Why Is Life So Complicated?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 20:38:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>tony</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So today I get an email from Florida with a scan of a payslip from the company who laid me off in mid February. It seems that because I was paying COBRA (a way to continue your health insurance cover &#8230; <a href="http://www.delovesto.com/2009/09/why-is-life-so-complicated/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So today I get an email from Florida with a scan of a payslip from the company who laid me off in mid February.</p>
<p>It seems that because I was paying COBRA (a way to continue your health insurance cover after you lose your job in the USA, but at an extortionate rate), I am due a refund.</p>
<p>Well, the money was sent direct to one of the two bank accounts that I had registered with the company I worked for, however it went to an account that I closed in June.   I managed to contact someone at HR by email to update my home address, since I am now in the UK, and also to try and get the money sent to the correct bank account, but it&#8217;s not quite that simple as usual.</p>
<p>They sent me a form to fill in and send back, where I can either indicate that I no longer wish to receive money by direct deposit, or I can indicate an account that I want to remove from the list of accounts that they have for me.</p>
<p>Well this would be great, except having closed the account they sent the money to, I don&#8217;t have any details with me, all the paperwork is being sent by ship to the UK along with my other effects.   I do have everything I need for the account that is still open, but the form doesn&#8217;t allow me to specify this one, only the one that I closed.   Grrrrhhhh!!!</p>
<p>So I emailed HR back, but of course no response in the last 4 hours&#8230;.</p>
<p>So frustrating and so complicated.   Why is it that you always need information that you don&#8217;t have easily available?</p>
<p>A similar thing happened to me last week with my car insurance as well.</p>
<p>In the UK with car insurance you acquire a No Claims Bonus discount on your policy based on the number of years without having made a claim.   It&#8217;s similar in the USA, however in the UK one insurance company can talk to another and obtain proof of your No Claims Bonus, or you can get a document direct from your own insurance company.</p>
<p>Well trying to get something as simple as this from my previous insurance company in the USA turned out to be less than easy as is typical.</p>
<p>It seems that because of the Non Disclosure laws in the USA, the insurance company cannot provide this information to anyone, including the policy holder themselves.   So, I had to spend more hours on the phone trying to talk to an agency that handles the disclosures, but they couldn&#8217;t find any information on me.  Then I had to call the insurance company back again.   Finally, I went to the web site for the agency, and was lucky to find a way to get a report.   I wasn&#8217;t sure if the report would be adequate, but found out last night that the car insurance company in the UK did actually accept the report that I sent them.   If not, it would have meant me starting out with a zero percent discount, and paying twice as much as I needed to for my insurance.</p>
<p>I just wonder why life has to be so difficult&#8230;.</p>
<p>I am sure I am not alone though.  Do you have a story to tell of how life has been less than simple for you?  Feel free to leave a comment and let me know.</p>
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		<title>From One Cold To Another</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 02:50:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>tony</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sad as it was to leave the freezing cold temperatures of England on Sunday and to head back to the warmth of South Florida, it was at the same time a sad departure from Debbie, since without her visa being &#8230; <a href="http://www.delovesto.com/2009/01/from-one-cold-to-another/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sad as it was to leave the freezing cold temperatures of England on Sunday and to head back to the warmth of South Florida, it was at the same time a sad departure from Debbie, since without her visa being approved, it might be July before we get to see each other again &#8211; not a pleasant prospect.</p>
<p>For weeks before I left Florida, many of the people in South Florida had colds and the flu.  I haven&#8217;t had a cold in over two years, my defence strategy involving drinking at least one large glass of Orange Juice a day, and it seems to work well.  Should I feel I am getting sick, I take another glass of Orange Juice, some Zinc tablets, and if I think I need it I pop an Airborne tablet.</p>
<p>Less than a week before I left Florida, I could feel a cold coming on.  I thought to myself  &#8221;I knew it &#8211; something had to come along to ruin my Christmas&#8221;, and if you have ever been on a long flight at the height of a severe cold you know it&#8217;s not a pleasant experience.</p>
<p>Well, dosing up enough I managed to eradicate the cold before it took hold, and I successfully managed to stay cold free while in England &#8211; until the end of the trip!</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know if it was 2 days before I left when I met up with my son, who wasn&#8217;t feeling 100%.  I don&#8217;t know if it was the following day when we went on a day out and also to the supermarket, which was really busy with people coughing and sneezing.  I don&#8217;t know if I caught something at the airport or on the plane.  But I do know that I caught something!</p>
<p>Monday I was a bit feverish, and didn&#8217;t have any juice to drink unfortunately.  I had a sauna/steam in the evening which helped a bit &#8211; maybe, but this morning I was no better.  All day I have had a sore throat and an increasing tickly cough.  This morning I got some Orange Juice, and have had about 5 glasses so far.  My head is a lot clearer than it was this morning, but the ticklish throat is still there.  The test is that if I pop an Airborne before going to bed, will I be able to sleep without being hot and feverish, and will I feel better in the morning?</p>
<p>I hate getting colds and flu &#8211; don&#8217;t we all!   As a child I used to have colds continually.  Not only did they last a while, I would end up so congested, it would take months to get rid of it.  Now I know how to help prevent them, I am determined to not let this take me down any more than I have to.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s ironic that having got back to Florida, my plans for working on this blog, promoting it, and working on other money making ideas, have not materialised.  Between t he cold and the need to adjust to Florida time, by the time I get back from work at night I am done in.  I find it hard to focus and concentrate, which is why tonight sees my first post since I got back.</p>
<p>Well hopefully tomorrow I will have better news to report.  Hopefully the cold will be on the retreat, and my energy will be returning.</p>
<p>See you on the flip side&#8230;</p>
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